CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ADOPTION!
We know your new cat will bring you years of laughter, fun, and snuggles. Adopting a pet is a wonderful and exciting time. However, it can still be a stressful change for both you and your kitty. This page is a resource to help you learn more about your new family member. Please remember, you can reach out to us or your vet any time for guidance. We want the best for you and our cats.
The 3:3:3 rule outlines what most cats experience during this adjustment period. Cats are territorial, routine‑driven animals. A new environment can cause anxiety that may show up as hiding, decreased appetite, unusual bathroom habits, or defensive behavior. With patience, consistency, and supportive care, these behaviors usually fade.
- 3 days to acclimate and decompress
- 3 weeks to begin settling in and learning routines
- 3 months to feel fully comfortable and have personality shine through
Adjustment timeline may vary by cat’s age, temperament, and number and age of “roommates” both human and animal.
3 Days
First 3 Days — Acclimatization
The first few days are the most overwhelming for cats.
How to help:
- Prepare essentials ahead of time (food, water, litter, bed, hiding spot, toys).
- Start them in a small, quiet room and away from other animals
- Use familiar scents or pheromone products.
- Keep a predictable routine and give them space to decompress.
3 Weeks
Next 3 Weeks — Settling In
Most cats begin exploring more and hiding less during this stage.
How to help:
- Don’t rush bonding; stay consistent and calm.
- Use treats and gentle interactions to build trust.
- Slowly expand their access to more areas of the home.
- Provide multiple resources and vertical spaces.
- If you have other pets, exchange scents and physically introduce with a barrier.
3 months
After 3 Months — Feeling at Home
By now, many cats feel secure and show relaxed, natural behaviors and more personality.
How to help:
- Introduce new people or pets slowly.
- Add enriching activities like playtime, grooming, or clicker training.
- Maintain consistent routines to keep your cat confident and comfortable